We had a fun day yesterday celebrating the Chinese New Year at Bop-Bop and Nonnies home! Zachary LOVES a party (Well, don't we all)! When Zach went down for his nap we decorated the dinning room with banners, confetti, dragons, noise makers, etc.

Nonnie and I planned a home made meal full of Chinese delights. Our dinner consisted of chicken dumplings, fried brown rice, Chicken stir fry, fortune cookies & oranges. We have already made menu plans for next years celebration! Here's Nonnie making the chicken dumplings...
Zachary and me looking at all the decorations...
Nonnie & Bop-Bop gave the grand kids their very first "Red Envelope" which contained $$Cash. Traditionally red envelopes are passed out during celebrations such as the Lunar New Year, Birthdays, Weddings & other Holidays. Red envelopes are mainly presented at social and family gatherings. The red color of the envelope symbolizes good luck and is supposed to ward off evil spirits. The amount of money contained in the envelope usually ends with an even digit, in accordance with Chinese beliefs (for instance 88 and 168 are both lucky numbers) as odd-numbered money gifts are traditionally associated with funerals. There is also a widespread tradition that money should not be given in fours, or the number four should not appear in the amount, such as in 40, 400 and 444, as the pronunciation of the word "four" resembles that of the word "death" and thus signifies bad luck for many Chinese.

During the Lunar New Year, mainly in Southern China, red envelopes are typically given by the married to the unmarried, most of whom are children. (In the North, money is not given in envelopes.) The amount of money is usually a single note to avoid heavy coins and to make it difficult to judge the amount inside before opening. It is traditional to put brand new notes inside red envelopes and also to avoid opening the envelopes in front of the relatives out of courtesy.

Before Dinner Zachary was playing with his cousins and they taught him a "magic trick". After doing the trick we all clapped at him and he voluntarily just bowed at all of us, which tickled us all! I am not sure where he learned to bow (I suspect it may be from his favorite Oswald cartoon, but I'm not positive on that) and I managed to capture him mid bow! too adorable!
Our dinner plates were full of Teriyaki Chicken Stir Fry, Fried Brown Rice & Chicken Dumplings! It certainly looks very healthy! And, it reminds me of how we noticed while in China how they ate vegetables for every meal of the day! We need more of it in our diet. Our local Chinese restaurant gave us the Chinese Zodiac place mats for our party. They were a festive touch to the decor! And, PTL for Party City! We found all our decorations on an aisle end cap.
A few festive photos...
Aunt Camie & Uncle John (my sister and her husband)
Cousin Caroline (our oldest niece)
Cousin Maggie (our youngest niece)
Zachary
Us
We took pictures of Bop-Bop & Nonnie in their festive costumes but those pictures are on my Father's camera. So, I will have to share those pics at a later post.

The night before our party Matt and I made fortune cookies! They were time consuming to make but at the same time lots of fun too. We drew a 3 inch circle on top of parchment paper. And, with our chef knife we spread the teaspoon of dough to the edges of the circle. As per the recipe we were only able to cook 3 cookies at a time because you had to work quickly when they came out of the oven, bending them into shape, before they hardened.
We had a lot of fun coming up with fortunes for our cookies. A few of our favorites were..
I think, you ate your fortune while you were eating your cookie.
The harder you try to not be like your parents, the more likely you will become them.
If you never expect anything you can never be disappointed.
Try? No! Do or do not, there is no try.
Those who walk in other's tracks leave no footprints.
Some men dream of fortunes, others dream of cookies.
If you eat a box of fortune cookies, anything is possible.
A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory.
Help, I'm being held prisoner in a Chinese cookie factory.
Alas! The onion you are eating is someone else's water lily.
Word to the wise: Don't play leapfrog with a unicorn. On our plates the fortune cookies & orange wedges were the cherry on top of a wonderful evening!

Happy year of The Dragon! For our first family Chinese New Year celebration we went to one of our local Chinese restaurants. Unfortunately we do not have many in our area to choose from. Or, not many of them are "authentic". We were hoping the restaurant would be full of local Chinese people celebrating the new year. Or at the very least possibly meet another family in our area with a Chinese adopted child. Neither were the case. And, we were disappointed the restaurant didn't even decorate for the special day. However, that said, all the employees were bonkers over Zachary! They gushed over how handsome he is & they wanted to know all about him...where he was born, how he was adjusting. Our waitress mentioned he was a "BIG BOY". Which I giggle at because most Americans say he is small but when an Asian looks at him they always comment how big he is. Zachary loved the attention.

The most interesting thing about the restaurant was how different the food was from the Chinese delivery restaurant we normally order from. Our beloved egg drop soup had a sweet flavor with the addition of onion slices. Matt did not like the extra touch but Zachary and I did. Also, unfortunately the sweet & sour chicken and sesame chicken dishes we both ordered were covered in a thick breading which neither of us enjoyed. I think we will be looking for a different restaurant for next years New Year celebration.

Our waitress did offer to take a family picture of us at the table. This will be a cherished photo for us no doubt!
I hope by now you have been able to watch our little iphone video of Zachary saying the alphabet with our chop sticks. And, I have got to share how that all got started. We were all eating with our chop sticks and Zachary was doing the best he could manueving his and at one point he must have noticed that he could manipulate his chop sticks to look like an "X". I was quietly watching him...he exlaimed "X!" I didn't say anything. Zachary intently continued to play with his sticks and he formed a "Y" and explained "Y!" and at that point I knew he wasn't accidentally creating the letters and I brought all this to Matt's attention who then started making the letters for Zachary to identify. It was a fun family moment we are not soon to forget. I must write all this down in my journal. Here they are with their chop stick letters
I've got to share these adorable paper fortune cookies that my friend Monica taught our Card Swap group how to make at our recent swap meeting. She had cut 3.5 inch circles from various valentine's day patterned paper. And, she included different strips of fortunes for us to insert in the center. I have put ours in the center of our kitchen table next to our bamboo.




Today, Saturday, we will be celebrating a home cooked chinese meal with Nonnie & Bop-bop and my sister Camille's family. Last night Matt and I made our very own home made fortune cookies! I will share more on our evening in a few days.

Again, Happy Chinese New Year! The year of the dragon is a very special year because on the Chinese zodiac the dragon is the only mythical animal! And, we wish you each a year full of happiness, health & prosperity!

Monday night, in celebration of both the Chinese Lunar New Year and Nancy (Matt’s Mom)’s birthday, we went out to dinner at a local Chinese restaurant. Zach was a big hit with the staff at the restaurant. During the course of the meal, Zach started playing with some chopsticks. While playing, he spontaneously formed the letters X and Y and identified them as such as he was doing it. We immediately started making other letters with the chopsticks with Zach identifying them as we did. Julia caught it on video…

As promised, here are a few of our favorite photos from my Father's camera on Christmas day.

My Mother is quite the seamstress and she made all of us gorgeous aprons. Here we are posing and Zachary had to get into the action too...
One of Zachary's favorite toys from Christmas is the Thomas the train wooden train set. We have since set it up on our coffee table. He seems to enjoy walking around and around the table pushing Thomas and creating "accidents" for Thomas to over come.
Zachary peeking out behind the large stack of Christmas gifts before all our company arrived.
Zachary cooking on his new little tykes grill...maybe one day soon he will be able to help out and cook dinner for us :)We are well into 2012. Seems as if potty training has been our focus & Zachary has excellent days and not so excellent days. It never fails that if he is wearing his diapers he does a fabulous job at using the potty. However, put on his big boy underpants and less than an hour will go by when he has an accident. It's been frustrating for us. But, we do our best to stay upbeat. We certainly have learned that positive reinforcement is the best motivator for Zachary. Matt brought home a spiral notebook that Zachary "earns" stickers for. Over Christmas Zachary's sticker collection has grown 100 fold! I'll have to take pictures soon to share.

It's 2012, Happy New Year!
Obviously 2011 was a year where our prayers were answered with Zachary. It's hard to imagine that this time last year we were waiting on being matched....in fact, in 3 days it will have been A FULL YEAR since our agency contacted us about Zachary!!! WOW! How quickly time flies...

In our home, Christmas is all packed away. The last bits & pieces were the decorations in Zachary's room. He didn't seem to notice the Santa & his mini red Christmas tree were missing. But, when we mentioned them he looked around asking where were they? We told him Santa has gone bye bye for this year but he left behind his magic Elf!

Reflecting on our first Christmas here are a few Christmas Day pictures...
Matt & I discussed how we should start Zachary's full day! We decided to start very slow by making a big deal out of the stockings. We mentioned to Zachary how full the stockings were and that it was a sign that Santa visited his house last night while he was sleeping.
Stockings...
Waiting to begin the unwrapping, Zachary impatiently posed for Mommy. Notice the onsey Daddy found for Zachary. It says, "My First Christmas"After the stockings were opened, Zachary jumped into Daddy's lap...a perfect picture opportunity for Mommy!
After stockings we ate breakfast (Breakfast Casserole & fruit salad). Then we took Zachary to look at the Christmas tree. I could hardly eat Breakfast, I was so excited to see his reaction to seeing all the presents! And, his face just lit up when he got on the floor to look at each gift. We wrapped each of our gifts in different colored paper. It made it so much easier so we could direct Zachary to bring a "red gift to Mommy, White for Daddy & Green for Zachary".


After his nap, we dressed Zachary in his traditional outfit from China. We picked this out in Guangzhou and we were told that the pattern on the silk set was very traditional and meant to be worn for a "very special event, like his birthday or Christmas". I tucked it away in his dresser and nearly forgot about it. PTL (Praise The Lord), when I was looking for an outfit I came across it and knew it was meant for Zachary's First Christmas! His cousins love to help take Zachary where ever he wants to go.
During the gift opening we all rotated taking turns opening a gift. Zachary seemed to love to collect any trash and bring it to Bop-bop who got stuck with the trash bag. It was cute!!Zachary happily jumped into one of Nonnie's gifts (a 31 bag) to go home with Nonnie & Bop-bop! He waved bye-bye to us and it just broke my heart that he would willingly tease that he was leaving me...maybe I'm a little sensitive ;) But Nonnie & Bop-bop were tickled!Elf on the Shelf...
We are waiting on getting the GREAT pictures of our Christmas day from my Father (Bop-Bop), I can't wait to see what he captured of our day. He took a lot of Family portraits and special pictures of Zachary in his traditional Chinese outfit. Once we get them I'll post some of my favorites! They are sure to be amazing!

Many Blessings to you & yours in this New Year!!

Christmas Eve...

I am still finding tiny stray pieces of wrapping paper around the house! It's a joyful reminder that we celebrated our first Christmas with our precious son! And, what an extra special Christmas we had!! For over ten years we prayed and dreamed of the day we would be celebrating Christmas with our child and this year all our prayers/dreams were realized. Praise The Lord!!

Our Christmas celebration starts on Christmas Eve. The day we celebrate with Matt's father, Poppi. Since we were all dressed up we took a few pictures in front of our Christmas tree. We took about 20 pictures of this and similar poses because Mommy has to look good (or the picture will never be printed) & Zachary moves around so much it can be hard to get a picture of him looking at the camara. Not to mention Matt tends to have a "not another *@#*$* photo" look on his face, LOL.
After our family picture we set Zachary in front of the tree for some portrait pictures. He was mesmerized by a few of the ornaments. And, we used them to our benfit of getting him to sit still for even more pictures (among his favorites: Mr. Potato head, Fire truck & his hand print ornament).
One too many pictures and Zachary let us know he was done & ready for opening a gift...which, was not his so we had to distract him fast before he tore it open (causing even more tears).
Once Poppi arrived the fun began!
Poppi brought most of Zachary's gifts in a HUGE red stocking. Zachary was curious as to what was inside! After all the fun with Poppi, Zachary put on his Santa PJ's and came down stairs to say "nite-nite" to the Christmas tree & put out cookies for Santa.

Once Zachary was in bed Matt and I began a multitude of up and down up and down the stairs to bring down all the Christmas presents. By the time we were finished we were out of breath and exhausted. Santa's helpers took a BIG bite of the cookie Zachary left out and went to bed with the spirit of Christmas in our home, The precious gift of the birth of our Lord & Savior in our hearts & the thrill & anticipation of tomorrow in our minds.
..to be continued...

Christmas Eve

May you have a blessed Christmas surrounded by family & those you love!

From our home to yours, Merry Christmas!

We are in the full swing of the holiday season! It looks a lot like Christmas at the Miller house! Just this morning we were putting the final touch to our front door. My very creative sister made us a garland. It is absolutely beautiful! Thank you, Camille!! As you can see Zachary likes it too...
This last weekend was a very scary one for Matt and me. Being first time parents we were not prepared for the scare of our life that started around 5pm Friday night. Zachary quickly developed a fever that reached 102.7. He was absolutely pitiful & we felt helpless to his continuing whimpering cries. We called our insurance 800 hotline and spoke with a nurse for an hour! She gave us a lot of information on fevers. By the end of the conversation, all 3 of our home phone batteries were dead & recharging. Zachary went to sleep in his bed, we thought all would be okay. However, an hour after we laid him down, Zachary woke up SCREAMING and shaking. We went in to him & he was in what appeared to Matt to be a post seizure state. We went to call 911 but all of our phones were dead!! We ended up calling 911 from our cell phone. And, we rushed to get ourselves together because we fully expected to be jumping in the ambulance to rush to the hospital.

EMS arrived in a few minutes. By the time they arrived Zachary was sitting up, watching his favorite show (Oswald). And, he was largely back to normal. The medics checked him over and took vitals. All was normal. They offered to transport him to the hospital but suggested that he would be fine to wait until morning and visit our pediatrician.

Early in the morning we were able to make an appointment with our pediatrician, who keeps limited Saturday hours. Zachary's temperature was still 102. But, the doctor checked him over and said he was likely suffering from some sort of viral infection. She advised us to keep doing what we were doing, focus on reducing the fever. And, if he wasn't feeling better by Monday to come back. Luckily, Zachary's fever broke that afternoon. And, he continues to have a normal temperature to this point. As a result of this experience, we purchased new cordless phones!! In the process we learned that it is very common for children under 5 to have seizures as a result of a high fever.

Also, Zachary has not taken off his beloved Elmos Croc shoes since Friday night! The red rubber shoes seemed to be the only thing that gave him comfort! He has slept in them, walks around the house in them clothed and naked. We drew the line at bath time! We are very blessed to have made it through this ordeal intact! And, we now have a notebook full of details on how to handle any fever that may arise in the years to come.

Saturday we had another wonderful Thanksgiving celebration this time with Matt's Father (Zachary's) Poppi. Zachary had a blast swinging in Poppi's swing, running around the front yard kicking the soccer ball, greeting neighbors, playing inside with one of his favorite toys at Poppi's (the play phone)...
We had to postpone the celebration one day because Zachary came down with a brief cold (runny nose, slight fever). However, I am happy to share that Zachary is feeling much better. And, his appetite is back with a vengeance. Almost every meal Zachary requests to "pray" periodically throughout the meal. I managed to snap a quick photo of one of our prayer breaks with Zachary reaching out for everyone's hands.
I was pleased that Poppi was game to take a family portrait wearing the festive paper hats! You KNOW I saved the hats to have a Miller Family Paper Hat Photo! :)And, we took the opportunity to snap pictures around the house in front of Poppi's beautiful Christmas decorations...On another note, Matt worked very hard to get up all our Christmas lights outside. It is looking a lot like Christmas!! Sometime with in the next few days I will be posting our "handmade" ornaments on my www.craftyjulia.blogspot.com site. I hope you will "come by" to see what craftiness we've been up to!

We hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving! Every year we rotate our parents for Thanksgiving Day & this year we spent it with Julia's family. And, it was a beautiful 1st Thanksgiving celebration for Zachary. He spent most of the afternoon chasing his beloved yellow ball around Nonnie & Bop-Bop's yard. Towards the end of the day he started suffering with a wet runny nose. And, he lacked an appetite during the Thanksgiving meal. By the time we got home he had a slight fever and he was very warm. We suspect he is having a reaction to the Flu nasal mist he received earlier in the week. We are taking Black Friday easy and look forward to celebrating Thanksgiving with Poppi as soon as Zachary is feeling better, hopefully tomorrow!

My cousin's wife Meghan made Zachary these adorable embroidered applique shirts.Check her out on her FB pgae: http://www.facebook.com/MeghansMonograms He was dressed very festive and we switched out his turkey shirt for his Christmas shirt for Nonnie & Bop-bop's grandchildren photo shoot.

Cousins...

Grandchildren photo...You know I prefer the out take pictures! This is right before Zachary askewed Bop-Bop & Caroline's hair. I'm tickled I captured his mischievous deed on film! It was hilarious. The act caught both of them off guard. Priceless!
Thank you pinterest for this thanksgiving fun!! We made Pilgrim hats & Indian feathers for a silly Thanksgiving Portrait. Zachary colored the band of the Indian feather headdress. And, for more pictures of the creation of the hats check out my crafty blog: http://www.craftyjulia.blogspot.com


The cousins created & colored turkeys from their hand prints. Then, they taped them to the refrigerator. Zachary was so over having his picture taken but I couldn't resist.


Happy Holidays! Time to decorate the Christmas Tree